I have had the exact same thing!
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and my sex drive just went downhill. i was on the pill when i met him.
When the spark was there it was almost daily and sometimes 4 times a day! crazy!
Gradually it came less and less and just stopped and we went months without it, we still love each other too butit just went.
Well the last 3 weeks has been amazing and it’s been like it was in the beginning.
I have no clue what happened but it’s just sparked back up again.
People use to suggest to me to try different things, things you havent done before.. But I’d pretty muich done it all, but if in our case you haven’t then try somethign adventurous, maybe the use of some favourites fruits and melted chocolate could help
Hope it all comes back soon
Take care
You probably love puppies too, but you don’t want to get busy with them.
There’s nothing wrong with your libido. Your body’s just bored with the same ole same ole… it happens.
Try some racy sex out of your “usual” comfort zones – try doing it in places where you might get caught, for example, or go out driving naked late at night and have car sex, things like that.
Or, face the fact that “that’s all there is,” and love him platonically.
I have had the exact same thing!
I’ve been with my boyfriend for 4 years and my sex drive just went downhill. i was on the pill when i met him.
When the spark was there it was almost daily and sometimes 4 times a day! crazy!
Gradually it came less and less and just stopped and we went months without it, we still love each other too butit just went.
Well the last 3 weeks has been amazing and it’s been like it was in the beginning.
I have no clue what happened but it’s just sparked back up again.
People use to suggest to me to try different things, things you havent done before.. But I’d pretty muich done it all, but if in our case you haven’t then try somethign adventurous, maybe the use of some favourites fruits and melted chocolate could help
Hope it all comes back soon
Take care
i would try changing your diet. Lots of avacados, shellfish and chocolate for desert!
You probably love puppies too, but you don’t want to get busy with them.
There’s nothing wrong with your libido. Your body’s just bored with the same ole same ole… it happens.
Try some racy sex out of your “usual” comfort zones – try doing it in places where you might get caught, for example, or go out driving naked late at night and have car sex, things like that.
Or, face the fact that “that’s all there is,” and love him platonically.